Today’s SuperVerse is Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger.
How to Handle Conflict – Proverbs 15:1
One of the most important lessons Solomon taught was that conflict is not a sign of weakness; it can be a way of strengthening relationships and building mutual respect. It is also a time for growth and change, and is often a good time for communication and collaboration.
The first step to resolving conflict is to acknowledge the issue and discuss it with the person involved in the situation. This will help you understand what the issue is, and it will also allow both parties to present their sides of the story without interruption.
Ask questions to find out why the conflict occurred and how it came about. Make sure that you get all of the information possible to avoid making judgments based on incomplete or incorrect information.
Listen carefully to the other person’s side of the story and ask them about their thoughts and feelings as they relate to the issue at hand. Taking the time to really hear what they have to say will help them to feel heard, understood, and valued.
Be a calm and supportive presence during the discussion. This means staying neutral and avoiding any personal emotions or comments that might stir up tension or make the other party uncomfortable.
Identify what type of conflict you are dealing with, and focus on solutions that address the specific issues related to that issue. This will save you time in the long run because you will be able to spend your energy addressing only issues that actually matter.
